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hi chocolate,

"and how was it? You know this guy is cute, ...."


oh my god drinking too much is no excuse that way. I often thought guys can't really understand what's meaning for a woman being raped. the most abnormal comment, a guy told me about getting raped, was "rape means a woman who ...

hi chocolate!

feeling guilty is one of the problems many raped women have. they think they did something that provocated that guy to doing something. but: "no" means "no", whatever one of these awful pigs (sorry) tells you, or tries to make you believe.

so, I agree - it's very difficult to tell ...

hi chocolate,

I'm sorry for what happened to you!
it's very difficult to go on after something like that, when you still suffer from these memories..
do you have someone in real life with you can talk about that? I think it's very difficult, but if you can tell somebody who understands you, it'll ...

hi life,

first of all; don't worry, I understood very well

no, I don't think your fantasies are too unreal, you seem to be a very sensitive and emotional person, who needs lots of love. you shouldn't give up your needs, 'cause if you act that way, you'll never be happy while having sex!

you told ...

hi

it took a little longer for me to come on here (yes, the very one question; should I register on here, or not ^^), but now I'm arrived, too.
usually I prefered an extra thread for self-introducing, but the edit-button didn't work, so I canceled the whole topic - damn mistakes

I hope anyone ...