OCPD or obsessive–compulsive personality disorder

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Post Dec 04 2012, 03:43

Yezrel wrote:I find this thread with the words ocpd and forum on page five of the search machine results. Rather well for this short time. I hope some OCPDer can meet me now here.
With the words Yezrel and forum or ocpd we are on page 1!

I also write with this nick in other forums about OCPD.
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Post Dec 04 2012, 04:00

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Post Dec 04 2012, 14:09

The general tax form is complete soon.

Turbulent_me about his OCPD.
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Post Dec 05 2012, 01:05

Yezrel wrote:For example I´m controlling something (a form, household or others) and one of my family members means that´s enough, but not for me I say "You know my need of control, please do you have comprehension for my anankastic control impulse now. I cannot find calm without this control." Then my family can understand that and gives calm me. On this way I can relax better and loose the control.
It´s not so simple to loose the control for an OCPDer. The family must help to loose through calm words and a lot of love and understanding. Not fight. I´m going to therapy. That´s a long process and not a simple decision because anxiety is the background. It´s not easy to loose. A massive trigger of anxiety for an OCPDer. A change is not possible without love and understanding of the family. It´s an anankastic anxious impulse, not bad intents and affects.
Yezrel wrote:The general tax form is complete soon.
Today I recopied the fourth tax dossier (98 pages!) and prepared for immediate dispatch. Now I must do online banking.
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Re: OCPD or obsessive–compulsive personality disorder

Post Dec 05 2012, 02:38

Personality Disorders in Modern Life (Part 5 of 7) as of this point 4:40 title Compulsive

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Okay, I understand: An OCPDer ist a police officer.

My mother always said to me: You are a police officer!

She has right!

The proof is here.

OCPD Police

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Post Dec 05 2012, 14:07

I´ve written to my therapist for giving me a doctor's certificate at the date fixed. However I must do online banking today. I need energy.

In the past my father was very impulsive and the whole family lived in anxiety. I try to wind my father round my little finger with the charm of little daughter. On this way I could allay his anger and found the control about him. I was well-behaved and helped my parents and brothers and my sister. I was the real mother of the whole family and had the control for peace. My family had great expectations, I must be perfect, a perfect child, a perfect sister, a perfect mother for all, to be God without mistakes. I may not to be a miserable failure. OCPD, that´s a family pattern, not only the OCPDer and his personality. And now I need the doctor´s certificate for my family because I cannot be so perfect, I am tired.
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Post Dec 05 2012, 23:58

HOW TO LIVE WITH AN OBSESSIVE PERSONALITY DISORDER!!

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Post Dec 06 2012, 10:58

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Post Dec 06 2012, 11:10

I love this energy! Now I´m stepping with my stepper!

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Post Dec 06 2012, 12:38

Is an OCPDer more as his disorder?

Behavior is also individual by persons with OCPD. OCPDer have not the same clone behavior. Look the official criteria about OCPD and don´t mix other aspects of YOUR OCPD family member in this diagnosis. The essential criteria of OCPD are not aggressive, impulsive, incorrect, disrespectful or anger but control, lists, worry, high ethic standards. If an OCPDer has other attributes that´s NOT his OCPD. He is not only OCPD, he is more as the disorder. Don´t see only the disorder. That´s not a normal thinking. Experts often give a diagnosis of a combined disorder because OCPD is not the great common denominator which takes all attributes of one OCPDer.

How do you feel if somebody look in your person OR behavior (that´s expression of the individual person) only a disorder?

DSM-IV's criterion for Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder:

[A pervasive pattern of preoccupation with orderliness, perfectionism, and mental and interpersonal control, at the expense of flexibility, openness, and efficiency, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by four (or more) of the following:

[1] is preoccupied with details, rules, lists, order, organization, or schedules to the extent that the major point of the activity is lost.

[2] shows perfectionism that interferes with task completion (e.g., is unable to complete a project because his or her own overly strict standards are not met)

[3] is excessively devoted to work and productivity to the exclusion of leisure activities and friendships (not accounted for by obvious economic necessity)

[4] is overconscientious, scrupulous, and inflexible about matters of morality, ethics, or values (not accounted for by cultural or religious identification)

[5] is unable to discard worn-out or worthless objects even when they have no sentimental value

[6] is reluctant to delegate tasks or to work with others unless they submit to exactly his or her way of doing things

[7] adopts a miserly spending style toward both self and others; money is viewed as something to be hoarded for future catastrophes

[8] shows rigidity and stubbornness

And the newest criteria:

The new DSM 5 since may 2013

http://www.dsm5.org

T 01 Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder
Proposed Revision
DSM-5

The essential features of a personality disorder are impairments in personality (self and interpersonal) functioning and the presence of pathological personality traits. To diagnose obsessive-compulsive personality disorder, the following criteria must be met:

A. Significant impairments in personality functioning manifest by:
1. Impairments in self functioning (a or b):
a. Identity: Sense of self derived predominantly from work or productivity; constricted experience and expression of strong emotions.

b. Self-direction: Difficulty completing tasks and realizing goals associated with rigid and unreasonably high and inflexible internal standards of behavior; overly conscientious and moralistic attitudes.

AND

2. Impairments in Interpersonal Functioning (a or b):
a. Empathy: Difficulty understanding and appreciating the ideas, feelings, or behaviors of others.
b. Intimacy: Relationships seen as secondary to work and productivity; rigidity and stubbornness negatively affect relationships with others.

B. Pathological personality traits in the following domains:
1. Compulsivity, characterized by:
a. Rigid perfectionism: Rigid insistence on everything being flawless, perfect, without errors or faults, including one‘s own and others‘ performance; sacrificing of timeliness to ensure correctness in every detail; believing that there is only one right way to do things; difficulty changing ideas and/or viewpoint; preoccupation with details, organization, and order.

2. Negative Affectivity, characterized by:
a. Perseveration: Persistence at tasks long after the behavior has ceased to be functional or effective; continuance of the same behavior despite repeated failures.

C. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.
D. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual’s developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.
E. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).
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Re: OCPD or obsessive–compulsive personality disorder

Post Dec 06 2012, 16:21

Only the official criteria are correct, no own theories. Ask your doctor. It´s a medical diagnosis. If you have problems with your heart only the experts can give you the right diagnosis not loved ones. The same with OCPD. Ask the experts and don´t find own theories. You are not an expert. Look the official criteria which are saying what OCPD is.

You can ask psychologists too. They have the education for giving the right diagnosis with the correct criteria but not you. Loved ones cannot do therapy with their OCPDer. They are laypersons in clinical and psychological diagnostics.
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Post Dec 06 2012, 16:21

Personality Disorders in Modern Life (Part 5 of 7) as of this point 4:40 title Compulsive

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Dan Aykroyd plays Detective Sergeant Joe Friday who has the profile of an OCPD man.

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Post Dec 06 2012, 18:12

Pop Danthology 2012 - Mashup of 50+ Pop Songs
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