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my girlfriend is always pissed off with me.. seems like i cant do anything right for her, and she says i just dont know what to do or what to say.. and i try.. but im starting to not care.. and im trying less and less..i love her .. but it doesnt seem to be
enough. What can i do? i dont want to give up, but it seems she likes spending my money, but i cant do anything right ..

Hi deefy

Can you tell a special situation where your girlfriend is pissed off with you?

well like when we were trying to decide on christmas lights for the house, and i asked her where she wanted to put them.. she wasnt sure exactly.. and said oh u know what
to buy go guy them... so i buy one box of 35 ft long.. and she gets mad and says i should have bought more.. and goes on about it for 10 mins.. and then adds that sometimes
she doesnt know where my head is.. and oh.. she said to me one time that i screw things up because my brain is messed up from smoking drugs when i was a teen..

Hi deefy

Why do you love her all the same? Can you say positive traits of her?

Nice post...Thanks for the info

yeah some good things are that she does have a sweet side.. that is adorable.. and i believe that deep down she care.. ,
she can be funny and playful, but why all the criticizing,, belating, and control?

Hi deefy

My sister would say the same about me for the moment. I want to have her money for her son who lives by me in my house. He is my foster son and he needs money for life. I say that for showing the different perspectives. Everybody has right in his view. Ask you what you want for your life. Do you want to live with her the next years? It´s your answer Yes, probably you must accept this negative site of her.